First Date Safety Checklist for Online Dating
Meeting someone new should feel exciting, not risky. A few habits make first dates much safer.
Before you go
- Have a video chat first. It confirms they match their photos.
- Tell a friend who you're meeting, where, and when you'll check in.
- Pick a busy public place and plan your own transport.
- Keep personal details, like your home address and workplace, to yourself for now.
On the date
- Keep your phone charged and with you.
- Watch your drink and don't leave it unattended.
- Trust your instincts. If something feels off, you can leave, no explanation needed.
- Pay for your own way home rather than accepting a ride from someone you just met.
After the date
- Text your friend that you're safe.
- If you weren't comfortable, block and report the profile so others are protected.
- Take your time deciding on a second date.